So confused dating
You have done nothing wrong, you have been nothing but amazing to me and I hate the fact that all of this had to happen now. 1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success.
I’m sorry this is so long, and I’m sorry this is on face book, but I always freeze up in emotional situations. This girl is young and in that dramatic stage of life. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.
Read through this email, and then see my response here to it.
On first glance, it appears that Tyler has done nothing wrong to make this girl feel the way she’s feeling. The problem is that this girl is so confused about men right now, that no matter what Tyler does it is just going to confuse her more.
Hopeully she will chill out after a few days and she will realize love can happen again. I think everyone goes through this type of scenario in their life at some point. It sucks but you make it through and find someone great!
I am a firm believer in if you have been hurt extesively, you need to take that time, BUT not dwell on past happenings. There is no going back, no changing it----what is done is done. Got to get to training here so have a good one all.
Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. I think you are so right in your response of how to handle it. Yea, this girl has apparently been emotionally scarred somewhere in her past.
One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place. You can tell by reading her email she is really confused! She seems to have a strong fear of any kind of really bonding with any man. Definitely needs some healing time in her life whatever happened.
So the next time a confused woman comes into your world, take the time to listen…don’t take the time to try and fix her.
shane There was this girl who I met and she found me amazing.
She was actually dating someone else but was not comfortable with him.
Allow her the time to process what she’s going through, and if she knows you’re there she will come around.
Here’s Tyler’s email to me: Hey David…I was wondering if you could make out what this girl is really trying to say to me…. Tyler And here is her email to Tyler: After Friday night I was ready to cut off all communication with you.