Dating fearful women
Love, acceptance, respect, to be desired, security, passion, are all things a woman may want in her relationship.As a matter of fact these are basics that probably everyone wants.So get social, go to a speed dating event, book a cruise, do some wine tasting, join a class,… Look over to her and smile when she looks back at you. Most guys look at beautiful women but never do anything about it. Imagine people looking at you all the time, observing your every single move. I’ve got one last piece of advice: Stop yourself from being afraid of acting creepy!Training your ability to speak your mind will improve the results you get in dating like few other things. So ask yourself when you make eye contact with someone: Do I want to get to know this person? You have come to this site, which probably means you are a nice and intelligent guy who truly loves and respects women.I realize that a lot of guys have intense anxiety around showing intent.Putting your cards on the table can be scary – for men women, by the way.You look so gorgeous,” is much more difficult to size up and thus triggers the ‘creep response’ in her. You don’t have to be over direct and throw out all manners and social protocol, like the guy in the first example.But if you like a girl and can’t help but look at her because she is just so damn beautiful, then you better make sure you talk to her before she releases the safety on the pepper spray in her coat pocket.
Often, in psychological matters, what we try to avoid is what we create. So make sure you prevent yourself from constantly thinking about whether or not you are creeping others out and, instead, try to stay in the moment by conversing and having fun.
This sophisticated system is called intuition and women have got heaps of it.
Intuition surfaces as this strange feeling in your stomach that tells you to get the fuck away from the drunk loner at the bar who keeps looking over but shies away as soon as you look at him.
The main reason men trigger this uncomfortable feeling in women is by behaving incongruently. You want to get to know her but are too shy to talk to her right away.
In other words, it creeps women out when a guy is interested in them but tries to hide it. To feel better, you tell yourself that it’s rude to cold approach someone in this situation, so you’ll just wait for the right moment: “I’ll maybe talk to her when she is getting her coat or when she is waiting for a cab,” you think. Paradoxically, by trying not to be rude and creepy you acted like a stalker with rape tendencies. If hiding your intentions can come across as creepy to women, obviously, openly showing your intentions is a better strategy.