Dating dvice

As many mediums as there are, God works through them all.

However, one must also acknowledge the perils of technology and social media in particular.

And, yet, when you’re just getting to know each other or be in that new “boyfriend-girl” stage, it can get tricky trying to know just how far a boyfriend can or should lead.

So a good rule of thumb is to use marriage as a yardstick: while a boyfriend should not “lead” his girlfriend or potential partner to the level of a husband and wife — which is to say he is not yet charged by God to lead, cover, provide and protect — he can absolutely encourage her already present devotion and natural gifts.

That is certainly not what is being prescribed here.

When you’re trying to assess “speed” of a relationship and how it’s progressing, you want to look within yourself (and behind their actions as well) for a sense of what is driving the heightened passion and regard. Is there truly a connection or is the relationship outpacing what you know about them or they know about you?

It is this willingness to grow in one’s faith, either through discipleship or community involvement, that you can truly get a sense of their belief.

The best piece of Christian dating advice is this: “too fast” is only what you make of it.

However, if there is a real and stated sense of the fact that a man is pursuing a woman with the intent of a desire to establish a relationship and, furthermore, wants to make the commitment public knowledge, then that is a more than acceptable use of the social media medium.

One of the best pieces of Christian dating advice is something that not only Christian singles can benefit from: even non-denominational singles who are looking for commitment-minded partners would do well to remember that the basis for any truly whole-hearted relationship is often friendship.

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