Dating a man in jail
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(The site is a barrage of ancient clip art and analog graphics.) “I thought, ‘What in the world is that?There are lots of individual reasons why women romance and become romanced by these prison lovers, but here are some general ones: 1. Many women like to feel needed, and what better way than to take care of a man who needs so much and can't be even be free in society. The chances of having a normal relationship with someone on death row is slim to none, so women who have relationships with these men run very little risk of ever marrying or living married lives together in homes with white picket fences, and Volvos full of kids and dogs. Underdogs don't believe that good wins out at the end of the day, and these underdog women see men on death row as victims, just like they are -- only these men are just living out the victim-hood in a different degree.Women who like to take care of men, will find all the good in people who have done very bad things, and celebrate that good. By finding love with someone who is so obviously unavailable, the women who love them, can be in relationships that will never run a "normal" course -- and therefore, will never fail. Paranoid, and seeing the world as a bad place, women who find romance with men on death row, receive confirmation in these relationships that they are victims, as are their big house partners.A volunteer urged her to send a warm holiday wish to an inmate.Looking at the options on Prison Pen Pals.com, she chose a man named Ben, partly because he stated explicitly that he was only looking for friendship.