Christian books on dating
Before that, strict courtship rituals governed the path to marriage.Whom you married wasn't even up to you most of the time.Rather than directing the course of the relationship, God wants the couple to grow and learn how to make a commitment.
All they have to do is sit back and enjoy the ride.
This may be the biggest excuse men use for being lazy in relationships, much less finding one.
German theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer addresses this issue in a wedding sermon he wrote for his sister from a Nazi jail cell.
There are plenty of them, but let's focus on what I believe are the top five myths that make dating harder for Christian singles. There is plenty of stuff about God's will for his people, God wanting good things for you, and God's ultimate plan.
Nowhere, however, does it say that God picked out a spunky brunette whom he's waiting to spring on you at the right moment. When it comes to God, I'm pretty careful about saying what he does or doesn't do.