Armed service members dating minors
The guidelines regarding dating vary depending upon rank, but apply regardless of gender or direct lines of command. Military regulations chiefly regulate against dating between two soldiers of different ranks. Military policy in all branches prohibits all kinds of fraternization between soldiers of different grades; while the prohibited relationship is officer/enlisted solider, it also applies to any two different grades of soldier.
Read this portion from the AR: “Relationships between Soldiers of different rank are prohibited if they— (1) Compromise, or appear to compromise, the integrity of supervisory authority or the chain of command.
Examples of fraternization include going to one another’s private homes or to clubs together, dating, sexual activities or any kind of favoritism.
The senior ranking officer in such situations is considered to have greater ability to promptly discontinue any behaviors in breach of policy, but both soldiers are considered equally accountable.
The most important issue right now would be your safety.
Your boyfriends CO can also issue an MPO which should keep your boyfriend from having any form of contact with you.